Modesty is always in style

Guard your body and shield your heart

Because anyone can just take it apart.

Modesty is always and forever will be in style. Modesty is God's trend. We must protect and clothe our bodies with grace and beauty. This does not mean 'frumpiness' or dressing like grandmother. In this time and generation, it is hard to guard our bodies, especially for us girls. Everywhere and everything promotes something sexual; low-cut shirts, incredibly short skirts, etc. Whenever I see a girl dressed imodestly,I automaticly say, "That girl's just asking for it." But then yet again, maybe that girl was trying to look cute and just wanted to turn heads. Us girls always want to look pretty and that's not a bad thing. How we dress matters. It sends a message to the world on who we are.

Our clothes don't fully define us who we are- they tell the world that we are either guarding our bodies and our hearts or we're asking anybody to take advantage. For anybody. You can still look pretty and cute with clothes covering your body. For example, that picture that I uploaded above. Look at her. Her outfit is modest and it's cute. Shopping for modesty is not that easy, however especially in this generation. It just takes alittle more effort but you'll thank yourself later when REAL guys give your heart a chance and you don't allow the guys who are not your husband stare at the parts of your body. We must treat our bodies as a temple of God.

Crystalina Evert, my favorite chastity speaker said," Don't walk around sending the message that your body is the best part of you-implying that your heart, mind, and soul aren't so important. Instead, say with modesty, "I'm worth waiting to see." I know it's hard to dress modestly.(especially during the summer when it's hot) I struggle just like anyone else. One time, my highschool had a Sadie Hawkins dance and my dress was so unbelievably low-cut(I don't know what the heck I was thinking and when I look back, I can't believe my mom let me buy it!) that we had to buy a shawl for it so it can look like I tried to be modest. Well, during the dance my shawl was unraveling and my guyfriend Joe, actually came up to me and told me that my dress was too revealing! Imagine how he was feeling, me tempting him to lust over my body just because I wanted to look pretty. I felt so terrible, but I'm glad Joe told me so. Since that day, I make an extra effort to shop for modesty. Just because you're not wearing a tight shirt or a short skirt doesn't mean guys are not going to pay attention to you. Guys who pay attention to girls who dress trashy, are just paying attention to her body. By the end of the day, dressing inmodestly does not benefit you in any way. So, how do guys dress imodestly? Here are my views:

Baggy pants and flashing the boxers. To me, that is totally unflattering. It's disgusting! Since when has flashing boxers and pulling up your pants been attractive? And believe it or not, a guy walking around with no shirt on for no apparent reason is also immodest. Hard to believe ? Thanks to this world, we've become immuned to it. But admit it girls, when we see a guy without a shirt on just walking around, you tend to look right? That makes girls lust. Even if it's just a glance.
Modesty is not only in clothing but, in dancing as well. Bumping/grinding and all that nonsense invites the opposite sex to your body, and not to your heart. So, if you really want respect, look the part.

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